Reading List for Kids
Caregiver Connections Lending Library of Children’s Books was created by Laurie Kabb, at Childcare Network of Evanston (3/06).
| THEME | BOOK | DESCRIPTION | AUTHOR |
| Attachment, Security. Love | Love You Forever | Boy and mother always attached no matter how old they are. | Robert Munsch |
| Mama, Do You Love Me? | Mom reassures child that she’ll love her no matter what she does or how she feels | Barbara M. Joose | |
| I Love You, Stinky Face | Mom reassures child that she’ll love her no matter what he does or how he feels | Lisa McCourt | |
| A Nap in a Lap | Girl is most secure napping in mom’s lap like all the animals | Sarah Wilson | |
| How About A Hug? | The power of a hug and love when feeling many different feelings | Nancy Carlson | |
| Grandmother and I | The warmth of the relationship between grandmother and grandchild | Helen E. Buckley | |
| Loving Touches | The essential kinds of loving touches a child feels he needs | Lory Freeman | |
| Attachment/Separation | Owl Babies | Owl babies wait anxiously for their mother to return. | Martin Waddell |
| When I Miss You | Missing mom is hard, but character finds ways of coping until her return | Cornelia Maude Spellman | |
| Knuffle Bunny | Trixie’s stuffed animal gets lost temporarily and she doesn’t have the language to express herself. | Mo Willems | |
| My Somebody SPECIAL | Children wait at end of day to be picked up. Hard to be the last! | Sarah Weeks | |
| Little Quack Hide and Seek | Little Quack is out of sight and in sight repeatedly. Mother finds him. Mastery. | Lauren Thompson | |
| Attachment/Separation, Security/Predictability/ Bedtime | Who Will Tuck Me in Tonight? | Other mothers try to comfort lamb while the lamb wants the routines and predictable security of his own mother in going to bed. | Carol Roth & Valerie Gorbachev |
| Marc Just Couldn’t Sleep | Marc’s mom tries all sorts of things to allay his fears at bedtime. | Gabriela Keselman | |
| Snug in Mama’s Arms | Soothing words and pictures about being comforted and soothed by mother in order to go to sleep | Angela Shelf Medear | |
| The Napping House + cd | One by one the characters get in bed and one by one they wake up. | Audrey Wood | |
| Goodnight Moon | Going through repetitive and soothing steps to calm down before sleeping | Margaret Wise Brown | |
| Attachment/Separation, Security/Predictability/ Bedtime | Good Night! | Going through rituals to calm down in order to go to sleep | Claire Masurel |
| Don’t Forget to Come Back! | Little girl’s strong emotions about her parents going out without her, and her desperate attempts to get them to stay. She does survive the separation! | Robie H. Harris | |
| Bing - Bedtime | Rituals to calm down for bedtime | Ted Dewan | |
| Attachment/Separation/ Autonomy | Runaway Bunny | Bunny wants to go off on his own, mom is always there for him | Margaret Wise Brown |
| Come Along, Daisy | Daisy leaves mother to explore, has fun and then gets afraid without mother. Regains security with mother. | Jane Simmons | |
| Little Quack | Little Quack goes off with mother’s confidence | Lauren Thomas | |
| The Kissing Hand | Chester’s mother sends him off to school reassuringly with her kisses in his hand. | Audrey Penn | |
| Will You Come Back For Me? | Suki is going to school/childcare for first time and needs reassurance that Mom will pick her up | Ann Tompert | |
| I am TOO Absolutely small for school | Lola is worried about going to school and brother encourages and reassures her | Lauren Child | |
| I Am NOT Going to SCHOOL Today | Boy is afraid of going to school. Stuffed animal and parents help him. | Robie Harris | |
| Autonomy/Confidence | Time to PEE! | Encouragement to use the potty | Mo Willems |
| Does A Pig Flush? | Different ways animals and humans poop. Confidence building. | Fred Ehrlich | |
| My Potty Book for Boys | Encourages toilet training | Mary Atkinson | |
| My Potty Book for Girls | Encourages toilet training | Mary Atkinson | |
| Koko Bear’s New Potty | Koko Bear goes through toilet-training | Vicki Lansky | |
| Bing – Get Dressed | Bing goes through the steps to get dressed, then pees in his pants and has to get dressed again | Ted Dewan | |
| Bing – Something for Daddy | Bing tries to make something, gets glue all over, and finds a way to save his project | Ted Dewan | |
| Bing – Paint Day | Bing goes through rituals to get ready for an activity and then has to solve the problem that occurs | Ted Dewan | |
| Way Down Deep in Deep Blue Sea | The pleasure in exploration, and then returning to mother with pride | Jan Peck | |
| Autonomy/Confidence | The Carrot Seed | Little boy believes his carrot seed will grow into a carrot and patiently tends it and waits for it to grow | Ruth Krauss |
| The Line Up Book | Mom thinks Sam isn’t coming when called, but he is “creatively” coming | Marisabina Russo | |
| I Will Never NOT EVER Eat a Tomato | Big brother finds creative ways to help sister try new things. Thinking outside of the box. | Lauren Child | |
| Bing – Go Picnic | Bing goes through rituals to get ready for an activity and then has to solve the problem that occurs | Ted Dewan | |
| Wanting to be bigger, self-esteem | Big Ben | Ben wants to be big like his siblings who make him a “report card” | Sarah Ellis |
| Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus! | Pigeon wants to drive the bus BADLY but doesn’t get to. Is very upset but then maintains dreams about getting bigger and doing more | Mo Willems | |
| I Can Do It Too! | With support and encouragement, little girl can do things bigger people can do! | Karen Baicker | |
| New Sibling/Learning about babies/Change | Now We Have a Baby | Teaches about babies and what they need/also addresses feelings about new siblings | Lois Rock |
| Just Like a Baby | Family prepares for new baby | Rebecca Bond | |
| Separation/Incarceration | Visiting Day | Girl and grandma look forward to their visit with girl’s dad. | Jacqueline Woodson |
| Separation, Loss, Identity, Single Parent Families | Do I Have a Daddy? | Boy feels bad when friend says he doesn’t have a father. | Jeanne Warren Lindsay |
| Adoption | Did My First Mother Love Me? | Child talks to adoptive mother about birth mother | Kathryn Ann Miller |
| Separation/Loss/Moving | Alexander, Who’s Not (do you hear me? I mean it!) Going to Move | Feelings associated with moving and ways to cope with the feelings | Judith Viorst |
| Daddy, will you miss me? | Boy’s father goes away for an extended period of time and they create rituals to remember and think about each other | Wendy McCormick | |
| Homelessness | Changing Places – A Kid’s View of Shelter Living | Children’s words about going into a shelter, living there, and leaving there | Margie Chalofsky Glen Finland Judy Wallace |
| Divorce | It’s Not Your Fault, Koko Bear | Feelings and issues in dealing with divorce | Vicki Lansky |
| Dinosaurs Divorce | Details all aspects of being a child of divorced parents | Laurie Krasny Brown/Marc Brown | |
| I Don’t Want To Talk About It | Parents tell daughter of their divorce and though she doesn’t want to talk about it, they talk with her and help her | Jeanie Franz Ransom | |
| Divorce | Good-Bye, Daddy! | The difficulty saying good-bye after visits with Dad. | Brigitte Weninger |
| Mama and Daddy Bear’s Divorce | Dinah is sad about parent’s divorce. Adjusts to two homes, needs routine, continuity to feel safe, secure, loved | Cornelia Maude Spelman | |
| Two Homes | Alex goes between 2 homes and feels loved in both homes | Claire Masurel | |
| Death | The Bug Cemetery | Kids practice working through loss by repeatedly burying dead bugs. Then dealing with actual loss of beloved pet. | Frances Hill |
| I’ll Always Love You | Boy’s attachment to dog who eventually dies | Hans Wilhelm | |
| When a Pet Dies | The experience of having a pet die | Fred Rogers | |
| Goodbye Mousie | The experience of a pet dying and working through the loss | Robie H. Harris | |
| So Much To Think About | Children’s Activity Book with ways to manage feelings regarding death of a loved one | Family Communications | |
| Saying Goodbye to Lulu | Little girl anticipates death of pet and grieves the loss with parent’s help. | Corinne Demas | |
| Lifetimes | The life cycle of different living things is told with tenderness | Bryan Melloni Ingpen | |
| When Dinosaurs Die | Teaches about different aspects of death and dying and loss | Laurie Krasny Brown/Marc Brown | |
| Nana Upstairs & Nana Downstairs | Boy is very attached to great grandmother who dies of old age | Tomie de Paola | |
| Illness | How Do Dinosaurs Get Well Soon? | Being sick-doing what is important to get well | Jane Volen Marc Teague |
| Illness | Koko Bear’s BIG EARACHE | Koko goes to the Dr. and has to have tubes put in his ears at the hospital | Vicki Lansky |
| Going to the Hospital | Details all aspects and feelings of going to the hospital | Fred Rogers | |
| Don’t You Feel Well, Sam? | Sam is sick and is afraid of taking medicine. Mom is patient and comforting. | Amy Hest | |
| Next Please | Characters waiting to go into doctor and watching others come out. | Ernst Jandl Norman Junge | |
| Identifying All Feelings | The Way I Feel | Labeling feelings with examples and great illustrations | Janan Cain |
| On Monday When It Rained | Boy goes through different experiences expressing his feelings | Cheryl Kachenmeister | |
| FEELINGS | Labeling feelings through stories. Small pictures for older children | Aliki | |
| Expressing negative feelings | Words Are Not for Hurting | Teaching how to use language positively and manage feelings better | Elizabeth Verdick |
| Teeth Are Not for Biting | Teaching alternative ways to express self other than biting | Elizabeth Verdick | |
| Expressing negative feelings | Hands Are Not for Hitting | Teaching alternative ways to express self other than hitting | Martine Agassi |
| Fear | When I Feel Scared | Things that make people feel scared, how to manage the fear, and things to do to feel better | Cornelia Maude Spelman |
| I’m Scared | Ways to cope with feeling scared | Elizabeth Crary | |
| Franklin in the Dark | Acceptance of fears; trying to overcome them | Paulette Bourgeois Brenda Clark | |
| When I Feel Afraid | Things that make a child afraid and ways to cope with fears and worries | Cheri J. Meiners | |
| Frustration | The Chocolate-Covered-Cookie Tantrum | Sophie WANTS a cookie and has a tantrum. Mom stands by and is there for her when tantrum ends. | Deborah Blementhal |
| Kitten’s First Full Moon | Kitten can’t reach the bowl of milk he sees (the moon) and is sad and frustrated, only to find a bowl waiting for him at home | Kevin Henkes | |
| I’m Frustrated | Ways to cope with being frustrated | Elizabeth Crary | |
| Frustration, Anger, | IF I Were a LION | Little girl gets a time-out for acting wild and imagines what “wild” really looks like | Sarah Week |
| Mean Soup | Horace has a bad day and mom helps him express his feelings by making mean soup | Betsy Everitt | |
| Anger | Sometimes I’m BOMBALOO | Katie is furious at brother, feels out of control & scared; then calms down | Rachel Vail |
| When I Feel Angry | Things that make people feel angry, how to manage the anger, and things to do to feel better | Cornelia Maude Spelman | |
| Anger | When I Wished I Was Alone | Boy is so mad at family and wants to be alone. Has dream in which he eventually wants to reconnect with family | Dave Cutler |
| I’m Mad | Ways to cope with feeling mad | Elizabeth Crary | |
| I’m Furious | Ways to cope with feeling really mad! | Elizabeth Crary | |
| Sadness | When I Feel Sad | Things that make people feel sad, how to manage the sadness, and things to do to feel better | Cornelia Maude Spelman |
| Identifying and expressing positive feelings | The FEEL GOOD Book | Lots of different things that make different people feel good. Identify good feelings and identify ways to shift to feeling better! | Todd Parr |
| Really excited! | I’m Excited | Ways to cope with being overexcited and over-stimulated | Elizabeth Crary |
| Pride, Self-esteem | I’m Proud | Ways to express pride in oneself | Elizabeth Crary |
| This is My Hair | No matter what her hair looks like, she takes pride in her self | Todd Parr | |
| Pride, Self-esteem | I Like Myself | Child likes herself no matter what she looks like to others | Karen Beaumont |
| When I Feel Good about Myself | Being valued and valuing oneself | Cornelia Maude Spelman | |
| The Dot | Girl thinks she can’t draw and teacher has confidence in her and sees her production as valuable. Leads girl to express creativity and believe in self. | Peter Reynolds | |
| Self-Esteem/ Body/Abuse Prevention | Your Body Belongs to You | Being in charge of the touch that you receive and give with others. | Cornelia Maude Spelman |
| Self-esteem, Appreciating others, Getting Along | I Like Being Me | Poems about feeling special, appreciating others, getting along | Judy Lalli |
| We Can Get Along | Self-respect and respect for others. Different feelings and getting along | Lauren Murphy Payne | |
| Understand and Care | Teaching empathy | Cherie J. Meiners | |
| Bing – Make Music | Bing is excited to make music but it is hurting Flop’s ears! | Ted Dewan | |
| Be Polite and Kind | Teaching manners and kindness to others | Lauren Murphy Payne | |
| Is It Right to Fight? | Different aspects of fighting and how to resolve problems | Pat Thomas | |
| Why? | The effects of violence, war, aggression | Nikolai Popov | |
| Bullying | Hey, Little Ant | Boy wants to squish an ant who objects and who stands up for himself and for mutual respect. | Phillip and Hannah Hoose |
| Berenstain Bears and the Bully | Feelings associated with being bullied and ways to deal with it | Stan and Jan Berenstain | |
| Shubert’s Big Voice | Teacher helps Shubert speak up for himself when he is bullied | Becky Bailey Leigh Ann Burdick | |
| Sharing, Turn taking | That Toad is Mine! | Sharing is fun until the boys find only one toad. Resolving the problem! | Barbara Shook Hazen |
| Share and Take Turns | How to learn to share and take turns and how to manage when someone doesn’t want to share | Cherie J. Meiners | |
| The Pigeon Finds a Hot Dog | Duck wants Pigeon’s hotdog and Pigeon wants it all to himself. Duck has to wait while Pigeon prepares to share | Mo Willems | |
| Friendship | Toot & Puddle | Toot & Puddle appreciate each other’s differences and maintain their friendship during a separation | Holly Hobbie |
| Let’s Be Enemies | Dealing with bossiness in friendships | Janice May Uddry | |
| Friendship | Being Friends | Friends appreciate each other’s differences and similarities | Karen Beaumont |
| That’s What Friends Do | Friends helping each other out and being there for each other | Kathryn Cave | |
| Join In and Play | Teaches how to play and how to enter play | Cheryl J. Meiners | |
| Shubert Sees the Best | How to see the best in playmates and help each other | Becky Bailey | |
| Lying/Truth/Trust | Berenstain Bears and The Truth | After lying, the bears get supported and praised for telling the truth. | Stan and Jan Berenstain |
| A Big Fat Enormous Lie | How it feels to have lied, and ultimately tell the truth | Marjorie Weinman Sharmat | |
| Sniffles | The social effects of exaggerating | Stephen Cosgrove | |
| Diversity, respect | I’m Like You, You’re Like Me | Similarities and differences and respecting one another | Cindy Gainer |
| We All Sing with the Same Voice + cd | Different people all feel good about themselves, their differences and their similarities | J. Phillip Miller Shepard M. Green | |
| I Will Be Your Friend | Songs and Activities for Young Peacemakers | Teaching Tolerance | |
| A RAINBOW All Around Me | Uses colors to celebrate diversity | Sandra L. Pickney | |
| Arnie and the New Kid | Learning about children with special needs and becoming friends with them | Nancy Carlson | |
| Families | All different kinds of families living in different places | Ann Morris | |
| Who’s in a Family? | All the different kinds of families there are | Robert Skutch | |
| Night Shift Daddy | Girl and Dad have ritual around his work schedule. Differences in families | Eileen Spinelli Melissa Iwai | |
| Support/Value of Teachers/Caregivers | My Teacher for President | All the positive qualities of a teacher lead child to nominate her for president | Kay Winters |
| Teaching Opposites | BIG Little | Shows opposites. Can be used to demonstrate modulation, regulation | Leslie Patricelli |
| Teaching Opposites | Quiet LOUD | Shows opposites. Can be used to demonstrate modulation, regulation | Leslie Patricelli |
| Teaching listening | Listen and Learn | Teaches listening skills | Cheri J. Meiners |
| Addendum 3/16/06 | |||
| Attachment, Security, Love | Daddy Kisses (Board Book) | Animal fathers loving their babies; Father kissing his child | Anne Gutman |
| Mommy Hugs (Board Book) | Animal mothers loving their babies; mother hugging her child | Anne Gutman | |
| Only You | Little Bear cherishes time with mother | Rosemary Wells | |
| Did I tell you I Love You today? | Mother expresses love for child in various ways | Deloris Jordan Roslyn Jordan | |
| Homemade Love | Girlpie finds security and safety in her parents’ love | Bell Hooks | |
| The Very Lonely Firefly | Firefly persists in seeking out another firefly for security/belonging | Eric Carle | |
| Attachment, Separation, Autonomy | Owl Moon (PreK) | Little girl and father share special activity that they do for the first time together which strengthens their attachment and gives her confidence | Jane Yolen |
| Autonomy, Confidence | I Love School! | Child tells what she likes about school | Philemon Sturges |
| Bedtime | Baby Danced the Polka | Baby is not ready to go to sleep; he keeps coming out of bed and dancing with animals. Parents help him “get tired.” Entertaining | Karen Beaumont |
| Russell the Sheep | Russell tries a lot of things to help him fall asleep and finally finds a solution. Entertaining | Rob Scotton | |
| Autonomy, Confidence | Little Pea | Little Pea can’t have dessert(spinach) until he eats some dinner (candy) | Amy Krouse Rosenthal |
| Self-Esteem, Appreciating others, getting along | Meet Wild Boars | Poorly behaved and silly Wild Boars are impossible to have around. Entertaining/useful re: behavior. | Meg Rosoff |
| Diversity, Respect | All Families Are Special | Children tell what makes their families unique. | Norma Simon |


